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Turning from the Negatives - Handling a Guilty Conscience

Hello! Hello!! How una dey?🙃😉 Disclaimer: I'm not perfect, so we're all in this together. I'd be talking about a sensitive issue regarding guilt ... pull your chairs closer, or in this case, pull your mind closer. I personally like to incorporate my faith into my reality, for me its more that a religion or a practice, it's a lifestyle so I tend to treat my issues as human, with Extra help(the holy spirit). We often go through life issues regardless of our chosen faith, and the subject ( guilt ) is a part and parcel of everyone's life. Sometime ago (not too long ago), I did something really bad, so bad it made me cry regrettably. I quickly got to my room, jumped into my closet and poured my heart out... I cant remember how long I was there, but suddenly I felt a weight leave me... I knew what peace felt like that day. Afterwards I came out, had my bath and slept. Morning came and I was back to reality, the guilt didn't leave me and my conscience kep...

Sexual Urges and Celibacy (not a guide)

When the thought of this blog post crossed my mind, I laughed a couple of times because I could just imagine the mixed awkwardness everywhere like a fart! Lol, this is so awkward! First of, why is this an awkward topic amongst Christian youths and adult alike? I mean, why do we stop at "flee from sexual immorality" and never really talk about how to manage the urge we did not put in ourselves by ourselves. Quick story, I met this guy a while back, he actually asked me out and I obliged. He told me on the first date that he wouldn't want to play games and that his intentions were marriage straight (omo, it sounded strange but the fact that he came off as someone who knows what he wants made it very interesting). Bro also said he wouldn't want us to sin so we wont meet in compromising places, wont touch me, but would kiss my hand occasionally for affirmation (ahah! Shebi na the ideal man be this ni?! This got more interesting) As a person, I dont really like being touch...