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Turning from the Negatives - Handling a Guilty Conscience

Hello! Hello!! How una dey?🙃😉 Disclaimer: I'm not perfect, so we're all in this together. I'd be talking about a sensitive issue regarding guilt ... pull your chairs closer, or in this case, pull your mind closer. I personally like to incorporate my faith into my reality, for me its more that a religion or a practice, it's a lifestyle so I tend to treat my issues as human, with Extra help(the holy spirit). We often go through life issues regardless of our chosen faith, and the subject ( guilt ) is a part and parcel of everyone's life. Sometime ago (not too long ago), I did something really bad, so bad it made me cry regrettably. I quickly got to my room, jumped into my closet and poured my heart out... I cant remember how long I was there, but suddenly I felt a weight leave me... I knew what peace felt like that day. Afterwards I came out, had my bath and slept. Morning came and I was back to reality, the guilt didn't leave me and my conscience kep...

Sexual Urges and Celibacy (not a guide)

When the thought of this blog post crossed my mind, I laughed a couple of times because I could just imagine the mixed awkwardness everywhere like a fart! Lol, this is so awkward! First of, why is this an awkward topic amongst Christian youths and adult alike? I mean, why do we stop at "flee from sexual immorality" and never really talk about how to manage the urge we did not put in ourselves by ourselves. Quick story, I met this guy a while back, he actually asked me out and I obliged. He told me on the first date that he wouldn't want to play games and that his intentions were marriage straight (omo, it sounded strange but the fact that he came off as someone who knows what he wants made it very interesting). Bro also said he wouldn't want us to sin so we wont meet in compromising places, wont touch me, but would kiss my hand occasionally for affirmation (ahah! Shebi na the ideal man be this ni?! This got more interesting) As a person, I dont really like being touch...

The Philosophy of Nothing

Hello Beauriful people! (we have got to come up with a name for this community o! Lol). I hope ya'll blessed and highly favoured? I hope you're masking up and sanitizing judiciously? I hope you haven't forgotten what g4 tastes like too? 😅🤣 You know how I've been letting good friends, my buddies of this coconut head generation share life experiences and lessons with you right? So we can all grow together because iron sharpeneth iron. We haven't come to give you gist today, instead, we thought to share our lessons on GRATITUDE. It's funny how everyone can talk about this extensively but we all still trivialize it because... * I/it would have been better/easier if I just had that.. .* you know! I hope you learn form this experience.  *‘Dekunle Falade* Other than I have multiple degrees in philosophy, my life has become a testing ground to pragmatise all the philosophical theories I've learnt. For instance, a normal person starts a new year article with lesson...